Lucy's Fantasies & Ideas

Hmmm... Ok so J wanted me to write something about my fantasies in terms of dominating him. I accept the challenge lol. There's some things that I can't/won't write here purely because I want it to be a surprise for my dear J. I'll do my best though. For the sake of continuity, I'll use the same sections J did. There may be repeats, but there will be some new things in each category, and I'll comment on J's explanations if the fantasy is something we have in common. I will add mine after J's, so first you'll see J's ideas with my comments and then my ideas. The ones that J and I have in common probably won't have in depth explanations, so just be aware of that. I've highlighted all the ideas I added.

Generic - Forced Exercise: I'm completely down for this. While of course I am opposed to fat-shaming, diet/exercise control is something I'm into for whatever reason.

Chastity (Lock-tober anyone? No-cum-vember?) - Unique Chastity Game: J and I have gone over this plan, and I've agreed with him that this is how we're going to get him used to chastity. - Tease and denial: No comment here lol ;) - Chastity checks (x4): We're already basically enforcing this one. Whenever I have him wear his chastity he has to post a picture to twitter to confirm that he is indeed still wearing it, and that it is the same one. - Shrink Wrap Cocoon Sissy Hypno: I really like the idea of this. Being able to restrain someone is a kink of mine, and combining it with teasing/denial and training? Ha, the perfect combination.

- Mortisafe: So this is basically a cheaper version of the chronovault, and if we ever end up using keys instead of a numbered lock, this is what I would use to ensure he doesn't get the keys when he's not supposed to.

High Technology - GPS Tracking, Bedroom Camera: We have already started doing both of these. We use life360 for me to track his movements and he gave me a wonderful surprise when he came home with a pan/tilt/zoom camera that I could access whenever I wanted. In fact, I may just check in on him right now. And yes J, I may be watching you right now. Or I may have logged out already. You never know. - Random Sissy Backgrounds: Oooh this one sounds absolutely amazing. I love humiliation and sissy stuff, so what better way to keep J in his place then to have him randomly come home to these on his monitors? - Self-bondage Software (Dildo training): This is a pretty good idea, and useful in training for sure. I think we'll have to find a way to implement this once we start training in an effective way.

- Remind/Edmodo: These are both programs I have used at school in the past, and they work well for this situation. Basically, Remind allows me to send notifications to J if his kid isn’t working or anything of that sort. I use this in combination with Edmodo, and when something on Edmodo is due, I will send him a reminder using Remind. On Edmodo, I will start uploading writing tasks, maybe quotes, things like that.

- Gradient: So J doesn’t know, but I’ve been doing this already. This has to do with Remind and Edmodo, but I think it should have it’s own explanation. So Gradient is essentially a grade book. Now, Edmodo offers a grade book feature but I like this one better since I can access it from my phone. Essentially, each day I give J a grade out of 30 each night for how well he did that night. Each week, I also give him a score out of 14 on whether he has reported his schedule to me (he loses 2/14 each day he doesn’t) and a score out of 14 for if he did his journal each night we had a real session. If he does something extra that I wasn’t expecting, he can also get points which are recorded in another section as well. Starting now, each time his grade dips from A to B, B to C, etc. he will lose certain privileges. This happens each time his grade dips 10 points, and while those numbers don’t corresponds to the real grades in school and such, it’s what makes sense in this case. He currently has an 96%, which is an A-. He lost a lot of points when he came without my permission, but frankly I was generous and didn’t take away enough.

- Qustodio: This is basically a parental controls software. I haven’t started using it yet, and there’s not much to say about it, but basically I can put parental controls on his computer.

- Findomme: Oh, that dreaded word. I know J’s not into this, and so findomme won’t be a major part of our relationship. I may choose to fine him as a punishment if the situation calls for it, but that’s all. However, this is my fantasy list. I’m a findomme plain and simple. I don’t need it in my relationships, but it is definitely a thing, and if I’m making my fantasy list, well there you go.

Simply Femme (Sissification) - Chastity Bra: We're actually currently looking into getting him a chastity bra as the next thing (I'm pretty sure) that we get him. Pretty excited to see how hard he'll be when he really is stuck in a chastity bra instead of fantasizing about it lol. - Dildo Training (Oral/Anal/A2M): Yup, we're definitely getting him a dildo. That's really all I can say, I mean what sub doesn't want some serious dildo training? And what girl doesn't want to enforce her sub's training? I mean, honestly.

- Super Sissy Clothes: Again, not much to say here. Sissy stuff is a total turn on for me.

- Semi-Public Sissy: Now I’m aware that this is really pushing J’s soft and hard limits, which is why it’s on my fantasy list and not my “things we’re doing tomorrow” list lol. This was a dare I found online that involves J dressing up and putting on makeup until he’s unrecognizable as himself but instead looks like a girl, and takes a photo. Sometime in the future, he drives a little ways (not too far, but far enough) away from his house and puts the picture up in a private location where there won’t be kids, and asks what people think. Depending on people’s reactions regarding how feminine he looks, he may get tiny punishments after. Again, on my fantasy list lol.

Naughty, Naughty, little J… (Punishments)

- Toilet Privilege Loss, Sleep Deprivation, Sleep Control: The loss of both of these things is pretty serious, and having someone willing to give you this control? A dream. I'm definitely up for it, but not for a small infraction.

- “Think About What You’ve Done”: Also a good punishment, and thank you J for this idea. I'm sure there will be a time in the future where this will come in very handy.

- Tarot Deck: I got this idea from another Domme (and I’m so sorry, but I’ve forgotten her name). The idea is you take the basic structure of a tarot deck and you assign each card a punishment. It can have something to do with the meaning of the card or not. I totally fell in love with this idea, and I will make a punishment and reward for each card depending on which J earns. Major Arcanas will be major punishments/rewards for either a major (but not extremely serious) infraction, or for showing a great depth of loyalty/trust. Minor arcana will correspond to normal punishments or rewards.

Do As You’re Told, Or Else (Blackmail)

- Locked in Panties/Locked in Feminine Clothes: Sign me the eff up for this lol. I absolutely love the idea of not only having his dick and chest locked up, but also locking him in a pair of panties or a nice little girly outfit. It's the perfect concoction of humiliation, blackmail, and sissy stuff. - Forced Bi: Oooooooooooooh boy yes. Yes yes yes yes yes. Forced bi is actually one of my biggest kinks (other than sissy stuff and, you know, blackmail). - IRL Punishment: An interesting thing, and to be frank I already have some potential ideas I'm looking at. Of course, this will only be for major infractions and it would take some time to get everything set up. But, a good idea and a good motivator ;)